Student Exchange Programs

I’m 19 and he’s 23. We are from different countries but met as exchange students. We’ve been together for a while now and we’ve kissed, had passionate make-out sessions, I’ve given him hand jobs and oral sex.
He does nothing to me except kiss me and fondle my ****. He’s very very shy, it took him ages to tell me he liked me and we got physical a very long time after knowing each other.

We’ve been apart now a couple of months (holidays and work) and will meet soon. We were recently talking if we should sleep together and he was like we should and I agreed.

Don’t get me wrong, I love him, he’s perfect. I want to sleep with him. We are each other’s firsts so thats good as well.

But my questions are:

1) He doesnt do anything to me other than what i’ve mentioned. He gets off each time we have a make-out session and is totally clueless what to do with me and although he’s a lovely guy, he doesnt seem to bother about my sexual needs.

2) We will probably sleep together but somewhere something is telling me that he might be using me to get rid of the ‘virgin’ tag and then go after other women. he’s not like that at all, I’ve met his parents and he seems perfect. Just sexually inhibited a bit and very shy