Open Question: How can I learn to be more outgoing and flirtacious to a guy I like, without throwing myself upon him?
I finally like someone for the first time after getting out of a difficult relationship in October where the guy was clingy, needy and depressed and I didn’t like him one bit. And it feels great to like someone again! I went through a phase of never wanting to be liked by any guy ever again, and now I’m out of that. It’s the best feeling in the world.
I’m starting to like the German exchange student (I’m friends with him… it’s not just a, “Oh, the foreign kid is so hot!” deal). I don’t want to get into a serious relationship with him because he’s going home in June, but I want to maybe be “together” or go to Prom with him. I’m generally not a flirter, but I want to make myself seem more available and open to a relationship without seeming desperate or slutty. What’s the best way to do this, while still mainting the image that I don’t want a serious relationship?
It feels so great to finally like someone again!

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